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Difference between a poly relationship and open?

Are there any fast and ready rules? Or is this something that fits in the "I know it when I see it?" To me open basically means I do not need to know, and sometimes do not CARE to know. Poly is total and complete honesty BEFORE the meeting. I ...

Comments: 11  |  Author: Jewel Jordahl  |  Created: June 23, 2017, 5:19 p.m.

How do I find the right couple?

I would love to find a sub couple to be a "family" with. Its imprtant for m that they love each other and that submitting to me as a Dom bi male is pleasurable to them as to me. I have seen lots of sub fems and males as individuals ...

Comments: 2  |  Author: Lashaun Lockwood  |  Created: June 23, 2017, 11:28 a.m.

All is well

All is well.

Comments: 4  |  Author: Luis Le  |  Created: June 23, 2017, 3:40 p.m.

So my girlfriend has a boyfriend

(Sorry if I post too much initially, I am moving some post and attention over from another site) My girlfriend had her first overnight with her boyfriend the other night. When she told me about it, I first felt a rush of jealousy and stuff, so I became the Observer ...

Comments: 5  |  Author: Dewayne Dunford  |  Created: June 23, 2017, 3:10 p.m.


My wife said the other day "When you devote energy to her and to your relationship with her, that is less energy you have to devote to your relationship with me". In my gut I do not think I agree with this...but I am not trying to find a position ...

Comments: 12  |  Author: Dewayne Dunford  |  Created: June 23, 2017, 3:15 p.m.

focus - not a question, but an intersting observation

Background - I am married, have a girlfriend. Said girlfriend is married, and her husband has a girlfriend. My girlfriend has a boyfriend. There is a lot of love being shared with a lot of people, in a W shaped set up :) I am very in love with my ...

Comments: 4  |  Author: Dewayne Dunford  |  Created: June 23, 2017, 3:16 p.m.

Can it still work at a distance

i'm the collared submissive of Master William and W/we have spent several years searching for the perfect sub to join our family. Perfect meaning they fit into the family and we all clicked. Master has told me from the beginning that it us much more important that a new sub ...

Comments: 5  |  Author: Rickie Ryland  |  Created: June 23, 2017, 3:26 a.m.

Compersion and not?

I'd like to talk about differences between relationships that one person might have. Like if you are involved with two people, and love them both, but you can't help treating one different than the other, or reacting differently to one than to the other. Of course, every relationship is different. ...

Comments: 4  |  Author: Lupe Licata  |  Created: June 24, 2017, 8:21 p.m.

Self Introduction

Dear Members, I took a brief tour of your group and find some of the discussions interesting. Personally, I [a Switch] am in a relationship with a woman [she's sub] and a man [he's dom]. Both of them also has other lovers, but she doesn't love her lovers, and as ...

Comments: 7  |  Author: Alfonso Amaya  |  Created: June 24, 2017, 6:28 p.m.

The Theory of the Pie - There IS enough for all!

I see it is time to roll out O/our, "Theory of the Pie". In a monagamous relationship, partners feel that they have just one pie (their love) to share between them. They feel that if someone other than their partner shares in the pie, that there is less pie for ...

Comments: 11  |  Author: Foster Forsyth  |  Created: June 24, 2017, 6:59 p.m.

Just working on this thought and chewing it over

okay. Warning since I am chewing this over, I am likely to ramble worse than usual. This thought came from several of the posts. My original post where I mentioned I do not need to like the "other" just like how he makes "mine" feel. Added to the comment in ...

Comments: 0  |  Author: Jewel Jordahl  |  Created: June 24, 2017, 11:32 a.m.

Not poly....but...

Never really considered the possibility of "poly" Let's face it having difficulty trying to find "one" makes looking form more seem impossible, or at the least greedy More than that though, on a personal level I would have just too much empathy for the girls I would "have" I couldn't ...

Comments: 6  |  Author: Benjamin Blank  |  Created: June 23, 2017, 8:21 a.m.

Possessiveness and Jealousy

I'm sure this has probably been brought up several times, so forgive me for dredging it up...again.. How do you deal with jealousy within a poly lifestyle? - not just in dating but also within an actual poly household. and another question... How do you handle a sub/slave who refuses ...

Comments: 12  |  Author: Deshawn Dry  |  Created: June 24, 2017, 4:26 p.m.

New to poly,am I on the right track here?

intro. Old to bdsm but have entered into a poly relationship.And its really freaking me out. Me: 41 and single, switch, pain slut into TPE. He's a natural but newbi dom, 36 and married.He's also quite a sadist She's his submissive wife and 27 but more a sensualist and hard ...

Comments: 8  |  Author: Andreas Alaimo  |  Created: June 25, 2017, 1:59 p.m.

How to get a hold of the green dragon: jealously?

I have been owned by my Master for about four years, and I have known that He is poly since the beginning. He has had others that have lived outside the household but have been non-sexual. As of late He has met a sub that He will be bringing into ...

Comments: 7  |  Author: Lonna Ludwick  |  Created: June 24, 2017, 3:01 a.m.

New and scared!

So scared, in fact, that I am blatantly choosing to disregard my bedtime in order to post! I am not new to BDSM at all, though it has been almost three years since my last serious D/s relationship, as I was looking for that certain "feeling" with someone. Well, I ...

Comments: 3  |  Author: Elliot Eastin  |  Created: June 25, 2017, 11:03 a.m.

trying to find our way

we are a new couple and new to kinky poly relationships, so we are trudging our way through as we learn how we create, sustain and value our relationships. we recently had a fight and are not on the most solid ground at the moment, although we are committed to ...

Comments: 6  |  Author: Garrett Gottfried  |  Created: June 25, 2017, 1:46 p.m.

Frightening territory

My husband and I have been married for 10 years, together for 13 total. Very recently, he began encouraging me to consider looking outside our relationship. I know this is a tremendous gift from him - he did not come to offering me this lightly, and I know that he ...

Comments: 8  |  Author: Ivan Ifill  |  Created: June 24, 2017, 12:08 a.m.

How Important is it?

I'll skip the dissertation on how or why I came to this question...it's not really important. But I am wondering how important it is to the group members to know if their s.o.'s and o.s.o.'s find them attractive, physically and otherwise. I'm leaving this discussion 'open' as I am not ...

Comments: 12  |  Author: Bradford Bevan  |  Created: June 25, 2017, 12:27 p.m.

a question

I have a question. I have a Mommy and a Daddy right now; they are married to each other. Does this make us Poly? Now I know must people will say that it all depends on how you feel and such. But Mommy tends to believe that because neither of ...

Comments: 4  |  Author: Steven Simington  |  Created: June 24, 2017, 3:40 a.m.

Questions for poly people...

I am writing a newsletter for a local BDSM group (TIED) and wondered if I can get opinions on what helps make a good poly relationship ? What works for you? What challenges do you face? How do you resolve them? Thanks to all that reply... Catherine

Comments: 8  |  Author: Jerrell Jules  |  Created: June 24, 2017, 1:39 a.m.

poly rules

hi, first let me say that i'm cross posting to the poly groups to get as much feedback as possible. my primary and i are renegotiating our poly relationship this weekend. we're both new to poly and have our own apartments. i'm looking to the wisdom of those who have ...

Comments: 6  |  Author: Alfonso Auten  |  Created: June 25, 2017, 7:36 p.m.

What is easier? Bi-gal or Bi-guy home?

I am very interested in polyamory. . . just seems like a wonderful way to live if you can find the right people. I am not interested in the separate households notion so much as the combined. So I ask all of you, what is easier? A structure of 2 ...

Comments: 5  |  Author: Patrick Patricio  |  Created: June 25, 2017, 7:43 p.m.

not right place to post this

as mentioned in title

Comments: 1  |  Author: Napoleon Najarro  |  Created: June 26, 2017, 4:20 p.m.

Long distance relationship and opening up: having some difficulty. Advice please?

So, I recently moved half way around the world from my long term boyfriend. Despite my initial hesitation we decided to try doing a long distance relationship for the 3 years that I will be studying abroad. Between school terms I fly home for a few weeks, and he will ...

Comments: 7  |  Author: Quinn Quin  |  Created: June 26, 2017, 7:47 p.m.
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